We believe that everyone deserves honest, practical guidance when exploring ethical non-monogamy and polyamory. Too many resources are either overly academic or dangerously superficial. We bridge that gap with real-world insights, user experiences, and actionable advice.
Our goal isn't to convince anyone to try polyamory—it's to help those already interested make informed decisions and avoid common pitfalls. We prioritize safety, consent, and emotional wellbeing above all else.
We're here to help people build healthier, more honest relationships—whatever form those relationships take.
We tell you what works and what doesn't, even when it's not what you want to hear. No sugar-coating the challenges of ethical non-monogamy or overselling any particular app or approach.
Our recommendations come from analyzing user experiences, success rates, and real-world data—not marketing materials or wishful thinking. We track what actually works.
ENM isn't just for one type of person. We provide guidance for all relationship structures, orientations, and experience levels—from curious couples to experienced poly networks.
We collect and analyze real user stories, success rates, and failure patterns across different apps and approaches. No theoretical speculation.
We track how different apps perform in various cities and regions, because what works in NYC might fail completely in rural areas.
We maintain connections with poly and ENM communities to stay updated on changing trends, new challenges, and evolving best practices.
Dating apps change constantly. We continuously test new features, track user base shifts, and update our recommendations accordingly.
6 years in polyamorous relationships, former dating app product manager
"I've made every mistake in the book so you don't have to. My goal is practical advice that actually works."
Sociology PhD, specializes in relationship research and user behavior analysis
"Numbers don't lie. I track what actually works, not what sounds good in theory."
10+ years organizing poly meetups and educational workshops across major US cities
"Real community connection beats any app algorithm. I help bridge online and offline worlds."
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We provide information and tools, but we're not therapists. For relationship issues, seek professional help.
Our recommendations are based on research and user feedback, not who pays us the most.
We don't pretend there's a perfect app for everyone. Context and individual needs always matter most.