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ENM Dating App Reviews 2026

Feeld Best Overall ENM & Polyamory App

โ˜… 4.7

Feeld is the gold standard for polyamory and ENM dating. If you live in a metro area, start here.

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OKCupid Best Mainstream Option for Poly Daters

โ˜… 4.4

OKCupid's scale makes it invaluable if you live outside a major city. The ENM filters genuinely work.

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#Open Built Exclusively for ENM Relationships

โ˜… 4.2

#Open is the most intentionally designed ENM app. Worth it if you're in a larger city and hate mainstream app culture.

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PolyFinda Dedicated Polyamory & Kink Community App

โ˜… 3.9

PolyFinda has the right idea but struggles with user numbers. Best as a supplementary app.

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MoreThanOne Free Ethical Non-Monogamy Dating App

โ˜… 3.8

MoreThanOne is a hidden gem if you're on a budget. Limited reach but zero cost makes it worth installing.

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How to Choose the Right ENM Dating App

The most important factor in choosing an ENM dating app isn't features โ€” it's user density in your specific location. A beautifully designed app with ten active users in your city is useless. A clunky app with thousands of active ENM users nearby is invaluable.

Our recommendation for most people: start with two apps simultaneously (one ENM-dedicated, one mainstream with ENM filters), run both for 3โ€“4 weeks on free tiers, then upgrade whichever is showing real results and drop the one that isn't.

Use our city guides to see which apps have the best user density in your area before committing to a premium subscription.

ENM App Features That Actually Matter

Quick Comparison: All ENM Apps at a Glance

AppBest ForPriceRating
FeeldMajor cities, queer/kink communityFree + $9.99/moโ˜… 4.7
OKCupidAll areas, newcomers, large poolFree + $9.99/moโ˜… 4.4
#OpenIntentional ENM, major citiesFree + $14.99/moโ˜… 4.2
PolyFindaDedicated poly, eventsFree + variesโ˜… 3.9
MoreThanOneBudget, polycule profiles100% Freeโ˜… 3.8

Not sure which to pick? Read our Feeld vs OKCupid comparison or check our city guides for your area.