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#Open Review 2026

Built Exclusively for ENM Relationships · ★ 4.2/5 · Updated April 2026

In This Review

  1. Overview & Quick Stats
  2. Features for ENM Daters
  3. Pros & Cons
  4. Pricing
  5. Verdict
  6. FAQ
Built Exclusively for ENM Relationships ★ 4.2/5

#Open at a Glance

FeatureDetails
PricingFree (Premium $14.99/mo)
Best ForPeople who know exactly what they want
Active Users100,000+ active
Founded2017
PlatformsiOS, Android
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Features That Matter for ENM Daters

#Open stands out in the ENM space because of:

  • Hashtag-based matching
  • ENM-first design
  • No monogamy-assumed features
  • Strong LGBTQ+ presence
  • Intentional community
Who is #Open best for?
People who know exactly what they want — especially those who want a platform that doesn't require explaining what polyamory is to every match.

Honest Pros & Cons

✓ Pros

  • Hashtag-based matching
  • ENM-first design
  • No monogamy-assumed features
  • Strong LGBTQ+ presence
  • Intentional community

✗ Cons

  • Smaller user base
  • Limited outside US cities
  • Premium expensive

Pricing

Free (Premium $14.99/mo)

Our recommendation: Start with the free tier for 2 weeks to check user density in your area. Upgrade only if you're seeing enough profiles to justify the cost. Many ENM daters find the free tier perfectly usable for initial exploration.
Our Verdict

#Open is the most intentionally designed ENM app. Worth it if you're in a larger city and hate mainstream app culture.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is #Open good for polyamory?
#Open is the most intentionally designed ENM app. Worth it if you're in a larger city and hate mainstream app culture.
Is #Open free?
Free (Premium $14.99/mo). The free tier provides basic functionality — see our pricing section for what you actually get.
How many users does #Open have?
100,000+ active. Density varies significantly by city — check our city guides for your area.
Is #Open safe to use?
#Open has moderation and reporting tools. As with any dating app, standard safety practices apply: meet in public first, tell someone where you're going, trust your instincts.

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Real User Experience on #Open

#Open feels different from other dating apps immediately. There's no swipe mechanic — instead, you browse profiles and reach out based on genuine interest. The hashtag system means you can search for people with specific interests or relationship styles (#solo-poly, #queer, #kink, #nesting-partner) and find people who've explicitly tagged themselves that way.

The community skews toward people who are thoughtful and intentional about their ENM practice. You're unlikely to encounter someone who stumbled onto the app by accident or who checked "open relationship" on a whim. This makes the conversations that do happen tend to be higher quality — but it also means the user numbers are smaller.

In practice, #Open works best in larger US cities (NYC, SF, LA, Seattle, Portland) and selected European cities. Outside those areas, you may find the app frustratingly sparse. We'd recommend installing it alongside Feeld or OKCupid rather than as your only app.

How to Use the Hashtag System Effectively

  1. Tag your identity accurately: #poly, #ENM, #solo-poly, #relationship-anarchy, etc.
  2. Tag what you're looking for: #dates, #community, #friends, #nesting-partner
  3. Add interest tags that create conversation hooks: #hiking, #cooking, #concerts
  4. Search by hashtag to find people explicitly seeking what you offer
  5. Browse "Community" posts to engage with people before matching

#Open Alternatives

If #Open is too sparse in your area, Feeld has the largest dedicated ENM community. For broader reach especially outside major cities, OKCupid is the practical alternative.